Relationship Resources for Couples with an Autistic Partner

The Autism Couple’s Workbook
Maxine Aston
A practical, exercise-based guide for couples navigating neurodiversity, with a strong focus on communication and mutual understanding. This updated edition of Maxine Aston’s workbook is packed full of insightful, helpful and easily accessible activities for couples where one partner is on the autism spectrum to understand and accept their differences. This book expands on topics including verbal and non-verbal communication, sexual issues, socialising and parenting, with case studies from couples who have successfully worked through their issues.

This edition is fully updated for the DSM-V and features new research into alexithymia, further insights into couples counselling, digital communication and sensory sensitivity, with new worksheets and opportunities for collaboration and reflection. Combining advice, guidance and activities, this book can be used independently by a couple at home or in conjunction with a therapist, encouraging communication and empathy to help make a neurodiverse relationship successful.

Asperger Syndrome and Long-Term Relationships
Ashley Stanford
Written by the spouse of someone with Asperger’s, this book offers practical advice, real-life examples, and communication strategies.

The Other Half of Asperger Syndrome: A Guide to Living in an Intimate Relationship with a Partner who is on the Autism Spectrum
Maxine Aston
Addresses common relationship challenges, especially around communication, emotional connection, and expectations.


Supplementary Reading

Communication Issues in Autism and Asperger Syndrome: Do We Speak the Same Language?
Olga Bogdashina
Explores the nuances of communication differences and offers practical strategies for bridging gaps.

Marriage and Lasting Relationships with Asperger’s Syndrome: Successful Strategies for Couples or Counselors
Eva A. Mendes
Combines professional guidance with exercises for couples and therapists, focusing on communication and conflict resolution.